One of the great opportunities that life gives us is to know and relate to our fellow man. Many of us, if not all, we run into in our lives with people we leave traces and they serve as a lesson.
If we are inclined to think that we are living creatures full of energy and vibrate according to our thoughts, surely we will find people that somehow give us the opportunity to move forward humanely, as is that of tolerance, kindness, empathy and compassion.
Also this encounter with others gives us the opportunity to share experiences that possibly lead us to educate ourselves and to observe the role we can play in favour of our fellow men. Therefore, do not desaprovechemos the opportunities that life and the universe offers us.
How, then, to have or to form healthy relationships?
If we start from the idea that in life there are no coincidences, and if the causalities, we could infer that the people who in some way have been met with we have been the product of the frequency we are vibrating. So, why to waste such good opportunities that are presented to us and that have been forged for us?
No doubt that a good relationship arises when we avoid to the maximum to place ourselves in the role of judges and judgments of something that we don't know we know. First, the great teacher, Jesus of Nazareth, said: "Cast the first stone he who is free from sin,". Second, we have to learn to listen. This is part of skills of communication. Third, accept that, although we may not agree with some of the premises of the people with whom we come across, that does not give you the right to think that you have the absolute truth.
There is a book on the market called The Four Agreementsand it says that you should be impeccable with your words, in addition to not make assumptions. When you are good to others you are good to yourself. Once you realize that you have the capability to appreciate your surroundings and observe that in each person there is something positive, your concept of who you share your environment in a way more intimate and your side is high. This makes the chances of establishing a healthy relationship, and healthy they are older, regardless of your desire to have a beautiful friendship, or of forming a relationship.
Remember, that the great love of your life is also your best friend. Healthy relationships are those relationships without selfishness, without jealousy, without judgment. When we take account of the talents that we have and that we can be of great help to others, then those mental disturbances and worthless as are the negative thoughts toward others and does not bring anything good, they will disappear from our thoughts.
Don't stop radiate magic through your thoughts, words and actions. Let us not be afraid of conversation, joy of the experiences and successes of others. Remember something, if you think with magic, joy, and love, it is precisely in this that you're going to convert. Did you know something?, people can enjoy and observe the wonderful thing that there is in other people, are immensely more fabulous, and wise, prosperous and magical.
You observe what there is in people, because it already exists in you. Therefore, the more you enjoy the beauty of the human beings, the more you will enjoy your inner self, and you would still radiating beauty, illuminated hearts and even more, sowing the seeds of love that is the primordial essence that moves the world. And that reach humans fascinating as you. Do not hesitate a second. Dare to be happy and grow healthy relationships!
Cesar A. Galvis
